"I am passionate about guiding individuals on their journey to uncover and embrace their most authentic selves."
Paul Courtland Soper LCSW-S, LISW-S, CST
Psychotherapist/Co-Owner
Hey there! I'm Paul (he/him/his), and I'm really glad you found your way here. As an AASECT-certified sex therapist, psychotherapist, and couples therapist, I focus on bringing together the worlds of relationship and sex therapy. It's clear to me that our sexual and relational well-being are deeply connected. I've personally seen how these two areas influence each other, and I'm passionate about creating a space for integrated healing. What happens in our intimate lives reflects our relationships, and vice versa. Blending these approaches can offer a more complete and supportive path forward.
I have a Master’s Degree in Social Work (MSW) from Northern Kentucky University and am licensed in Ohio, Kentucky, Texas, and Colorado as a clinical social worker. I also completed sex therapy training with the Integrative Sex Therapy Institute. With over a decade of experience, I've worked in various mental health settings, focusing on LGBTQ+ experiences, sex and sexuality, relationships, and trauma.
How comfortable do you feel talking about sex? With your partner? Friends? Family? Asking these questions is a great starting point. Sex therapy isn't just about fixing problems; it's about building a sex-positive culture, honoring diverse sexualities, and empowering you to live authentically. I believe everyone deserves to experience fulfilling intimacy, and I'm dedicated to creating a safe and affirming space for you to explore these parts of yourself. Whether you're interested in addressing sexual concerns, exploring your identity (orientation, gender, or kink), healing from experiences of betrayal, navigating ethical non-monogamy, addressing performance issues, or rebuilding trust, I'm here to support you.
My approach is flexible and tailored to your unique needs., individually or relationally. I use a variety of evidence-based methods, specializing in EMDR through an attachment lens, including attachment-focused EMDR modified protocols. I also incorporate CBT, DBT, Gottman Method, Attachment Theory, IFS, mindfulness, and somatic therapy. I'm especially drawn to the transformative power of EMDR in healing past wounds that impact our ability to connect intimately. Together, we'll work—both in session and through practices like meditation, journaling, breathwork, and somatic experiencing—to foster deeper connection, heal, and build the fulfilling relationships you deserve.
"Hello and welcome! I am available virtually on Tuesday, Thursday, and Friday evenings. I also offer weekend availability as needed."
Lucas Adams MGS, SWT
Exploring your sexuality, intimacy, and relationships can bring up questions that aren’t always easy to navigate alone. My goal is for us to explore your experiences, identify patterns that may be affecting your life in a safe environment. We will collaborate to develop strategies that align with your goals, values, and vision for sexual well-being.
Hi, I’m Lucas Adams, and I’m glad you’re here. Our upbringing, past relationships, cultural backgrounds, and even the messages we receive from society can all influence how we understand intimacy, sexuality, pleasure, and connection. I am particularly interested in exploring how societal expectations around gender and masculinity affect one’s sexual experiences and relationships. Together, we can examine these influences with curiosity, challenge beliefs that no longer serve you, and create space for a more authentic understanding of your sexuality.
I received a Master’s degree in Gerontological Studies from Miami University, where I focused
on researching issues affecting older adults in the LGBTQ+ community. This work focused on
social isolation and the importance of sex education as we age. Following graduation, I spent
two years working as a case manager, directly supporting older adults and addressing their
diverse needs within the community.
Building on this experience, I returned to Miami University to pursue a Master of Social Work
(MSW), expanding my focus beyond gerontology to work with individuals across the lifespan.
Through my social work education, I have deepened my understanding of mental health and
sexual health education, with a particular interest in the unique challenges queer adults face in
navigating identity, relationships, intimacy, and well-being.
Whether you are looking to work through questions about intimacy or your identity, or to develop a healthier relationship with your sexuality, my goal is to meet you where you are and support you in identifying what we can do to expand your understanding of yourself. I look forward to getting to know you and supporting you.